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HOT RICH MONDAYS: How To Get The One Thing You Don’t Have (Yet)

In every hot rich bitch’s life, there come a time where she may find that there is ONE THING that she can’t seem to nail down.

It might be a man, money, an apartment, a job, a bag, a car, a cure, a hail mary miracle.

And no matter how many blog posts and books you read, or seminars you go to, or guru’s you go gaga over, the ONE thing, that you want more than anything else in the world, seems to escape you.

Well, guess what? I’m going to tell you exactly how to get that ONE thing.

You have to forget it.

Forget you wanted it. Not FOREVER. Just give yourself a break from remembering that you WANT it SO bad, because you don’t have it yet.

Now now, I can already hear the protests:

But HOW can I forget that I want tall, rich boyfriend who asks me to live in his penthouse, and I spend my nights doing facemasks and watching real housewives while he’s away on business….how can I FORGET that when I’m all alone and practically living in a closet?

OR how can I forget that I just want 2 weeks at a villa in the Maldives, when I’m overwhelmed and currently living in the tundra?

Or how can I forget that I want to cure this pimple when I can physically feel it rumbling like an angry volcano every second?

Trust me, even in these dire circumstances, you MUST forget it. Because we attract what we ARE, not what we want.

We don’t want to attract more loneliness, more overwhelm, more pimples/pain/parking tickets, etc.

And if you are frustrated that you don’t have these things “fixed” yet, you’re going to attract more of THAT (the exact thing you don’t want. You must forget it.

You do this by focusing on something else that makes you feel amazing for just 20 seconds at a time.

Here’s the actual “forgetting so you can get it” process:

  1. Decide to forget it
  2. Figure out the feeling that you are feeling by NOT having it (frustrated, annoyed, angry)
  3. Figure out the opposite of that feeling (peaceful, in awe, happy)
  4. Focus on things that make you feel the way you WANT to feel, in this present moment (this is that crazy “be present” stuff people are always talking about”
  5. Focus on those things for 20 seconds. And then another 20 seconds. And then another. and another. and another….


What to focus on for 20 seconds instead? Here’s some suggestions:


  • the cotton candy cloud abyss up in the sky with birds flying by.
  • the foamy bubbles popping as you dip into a bathtub filled with an offensively fun amount of bubbles.
  • the ecstasy of hitting the snooze button.
  • how good it feels to laugh with your bff, rolling of the floor, lmao, about nothing, for like, ever.
  • the crazy beautiful the fruit display at any given grocery store.
  • the perfection of the petals in a rosebud.
  • the way that a puppy’s fur smells like freshly Pillsbury baked cinnamon rolls.
  • how listening to Nelly’s “hot in herre” makes you want to dance like it’s the shitty 2000s all over again.


And those are just a sprinkle of things to think about.

My personal go-to is for sure Nelly. Or the roses. But whatever floats your boat.

20 seconds is all it takes.

I am, getting, so hot...” – Nelly

…you probably know the rest of the song.

sofie von marricks


How To Get Started Before You’re Actually Ready


Today, we’re going to talk about how to get started before you’re actually ready.


This is something that I’ve really had to teach myself because by nature, I’m kind of a person who likes to have all their ducks in a row before actually getting started.


However…guess what I’ve learned over the years?


If you wait for that to happen, you never actually get started.


Then before you know it, someone else is running with your business ideas, someone else is starting the blog idea you had, someone else is writing the book that you were meant to write.


It’s enough to kind of piss you off a little bit…

Get a fire under your butt, and actually do something about it.


I want this to be your year that you actually become someone who gets her goals done.


Bring to mind right now the goal that you are most excited to achieve.


Let’s say it’s starting your own business or blog.


Do a quick brainstorm and jot down five next steps that you could take in order to move this goal forward.


Here’s some off the top of my head:

  • register the business
  • gather branding inspiration
  • contact someone to design a logo
  • sign up for a business course
  • buy a URL



Get that list together of at least five things. You don’t have to do all of them. Just pick the one that feels the most exciting in this moment. Move forward with that and follow through from start to finish until it’s done.


If it’s gathering inspiration for the business, decide, ‘I’m going to do this for an hour, and that’s going to be my task for the day.’


If you follow this process every day: coming up with five next steps and then choose the one that feels most intuitively exciting to you, after a year, you’ll be light years ahead on this goal.


You’ve already gotten started, and then you’ll find yourself who knows where. You don’t need to know all of the steps to make it happen, you just need to take the next step.


I would love to hear what is your next step going to be?


Write it down in the comments below and let me know.


Create some accountability.


Go forward, and get it done, girlfriend; because this is your year. This is how you start. You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great. That is really the truth of it.


I know that I thought I needed to be this amazing, knowledgeable, certified person before I got started, but no. Just get started, and you just don’t even know what is available to happen.


I’m so glad that I did not wait a second longer to get started.


It didn’t seem like the right time to start at the time. I was going through so many things. I didn’t have the money. I didn’t have the time. I was getting married. I was going traveling. But, I’m so glad I didn’t wait a second longer.


If starting a business is something that you would love to do this year, I would love to invite you to sign up to get on the waiting list for my course. It is called Hot Rich Biz Bootcamp.


It takes you from idea to creating your first online business, and getting your first clients online. I would love to see you there. I’m going to be running the course live, which I’m so excited to do.


So click the image below and get on the waiting list because I’m going to be sharing an amazing deal that is not going to be seen anywhere publicly. I would love for you to get it.




I want to hear: What do you need to start.


What is that thing that you’re wanting to start this year and what is the first step that you are going to take towards it? Make yourself accountable and put a comment below. I can’t wait to cheer you on.


If you know that there’s someone who is meant to start something amazing in your life, send this their way. I would love for you to share this with them.


I can’t wait to see what you get started on.


Wishing you love and light, and bite sized bitchiness.


sofie von marricks







Hot Rich Mondays: A Bitch Doesn’t Scare Herself


I don’t watch tv too much but when I do…

I always change the channel if one of two things come on:

The News. And Scary Movies (basically the same thing. They are just filling time, stressing us out, between commericial breaks).

Watching scary things causes stress. Stress causes cortisol. Cortisol causes pimples, wrinkles and other ugly stuff (disease, bad vibes, etc.)

A bitch doesn’t scare herself. Because she loves herself.

ALSO…there are other, way better “channels” to watch. 

A bitch doesn’t just avoid scary TV shows.

She applies this principle to what she watches in her life as well.

Sure life isn’t all champagne bubbles and rainbows. We’ve ALL got our valleys. Even the happy-go-lucky-uber-positive people you see on instagram.

HOWEVER. It’s what you channel you choose to watch that matters.

The universe is constantly creating and evolving this unreal, unimaginable playground for us, with infinite possibilities to create beautiful experiences.

It brings us sunsets, and flowers, and food, and laughter, and late nights where you laugh until your face cramps. Cocktails under the stars, poolside cabanas and handmade shrimp raviolis. Cooky coincidences, deja vu and serendipity. Love at first sight, soul-sisters, and BFFs.

Just letting you know that you can choose to focus on this stuff…instead of your bills, replying to emails 3 days late, your love handles, your ex that just got married or the friend who didn’t text back.

Turn your focus away and you’ll have more energy, vibrance, and inspiration to make the world a hotter richer place.

Change the channel. You have the remote.

Trust me.

sofie von marricks










I just spent a few glitzy days in LA with some of my best girlfriends and we had a gorgeous time! The last time I was in LA I was 17, which was a minute (or two) ago. I was there to host an event for some VIP clients and then we spent the rest of the time frolicking, celeb spotting and of course – eating!


The SLS in Beverly Hills is the perfect place to post up for a couple of days. Full disclosure:I found the rooms to be QUITE dark (I felt like I couldn’t see or find anything, even with all the lights on). However, the pool is a very pretty place to be sunning yourself and you’re very likely to see a few celebs in the process.


There could not be a place more perfect to sit on a patio and drink mimosas at brunch or rose in the afternoon. The Beverly Hills Hotel is a pink palace filled to the brim with pretty people loving their lives. At the Polo Lounge we loved the linguine vongole for lunch and the lobster tacos with crisp glasses of Whispering Angel for a lazy afternoon snack.


We spent an amazing day (and it really was a DAY because the traffic was very real) trotting (or treckking) out to Malibu. Book a table at Nobu for lunch on the patio and come with an empty stomach. We were obsessed with the spicey edamame (WAY better than basic), ebi mayo (still dreaming of it) and the crispy rice with spicy tuna. There is something just magical about sitting next to those ocean waves.


After noshing at Nobu, we needed something to do. We went over to Calamigos Ranch which I absolutely fell in LOVE with. It’s not really a “scene”, more like a magical secret Malibu alcove. Walking into the lobby lounge it had a woodsy/sexy scent wafting through and we grabbed a glass of wine and sunk into the couches for girl chat. Then we took our wine and wandered the grounds, took instagram pics and laughed and chatted. This is my favorite kind of day. The property also has a beach house, a very instagrammable pool area and state of the art gym facilities. This would be a great place to stay if you wanted a California experience that is a bit more chill.




Gracias Madre is a plant-based Mexican restaurant that is SO beautiful and so delicious. The patio is stunning (can you tell I love a patio). You must get the bbq jackfruit tacos (which taste just like pulled pork!), guacamole (duh) and a Mezcal Magerheita.


I can’t resist a seafood tower so this had to be done. Catch looks SO gorgeous, dreamy and so LA. The definition of “a scene”. It was packed with celebs (we dined chair to chair with Leonardo Dicaprio and Tobey Maguire) and saw a gaggle of Real Houswives (the real A-listers in my life LOL). But beyond the star studded sights the food was incredible! I banged on the table because the Truffle Sashimi was SO good and the seafood tower was the best I’ve had (and I’m a connoisseur).


Cap off (or jumpstart) your evening with yummy cocktails at The Nice Guy and Delilah. They are scene-y and fun, everything you could want or need from a girls weekend in LA. Don’t miss the photobooth at The Nice Guy (which we forgot about!).

As we left Delilah, we even got papped (lol) which really made this LA trip feel complete for me. I got my 15 seconds of fame and went home giggling about memories I’ll have for the rest of my life.




For your next girls trip, do LA. You’ll love it.

sofie von marricks